Relationships are hard I get that. Very hard, why do people even bother in relationships? When it doesn't work out it can be a grueling process of healing and trying to avoid the bad blood between two people.
Ugh, what a drag. Recently, I just got out of a relationship. I tried to be nice, tried to make it as easy as possible. Not the case. This girl has become bitter, angry and now she and her family are saying nasty things about me that are flat out lies along with her friends picking fights with me at bars.
Manipulative behavior, trying to get a rise out of me, all things she is doing to make her feel better and try to hurt me. Here's the best part, it doesn't work. Just shows me more than anything how wrong she was for me. How she just can't walk away like an adult, and how she now needs her family to do her dirty work and say things about me to their neighbors in their country club. I told her a couple of days ago that I didn't want her contacting me anymore, that I wanted her to leave me alone. Now the reason she says the things that she does is so I might just call her and talk to her which is exactly what she wants me to do.
Really? Does it really have to be resorted to that sort of behavior? Thought about calling her again and asking her to stop this, but what good would it do? Nothing, the best thing to do is just walk away. Just leave it be. She has to live with herself everyday, not me. She's the tortured soul who just wants to be mean and revengeful. I'm just glad she's no longer living with me and now lives in another state.
I never have to see her again, or talk to her again. One day I will be in a better place, and she'll still be thinking about talking trash with her family about another ex-boyfriend she has. You see I'm just a long line of formers that she has and will have over the course of her life. Me, I'm moving on, and better for it.
Relationships, can't live with them, but can you live without them?
